So you think you have skills??

         Good mornting!! I hope all is well with all 2 of my followers on here.. haha its all good though. I'm at work kinda bored so why not blog right? I have to keep the momentum going. This past Sunday, I visited Borders book store and purchased two of the best books I've read in quite some time. Both books are by Robert Greene. I won't give the titles up.. I would think that if u are curious enough, you would do the research for yourself..I wont make it easier for you. But I will say that though I am still in the process of reading the books, I am definitely seeing the world a little differently and opened up my imagination a bit more.. So check that out. Might I add.. don't abuse what you think you can ultimately capable of.. It can destroy you. So on with the show...

          Today's main topic is to discuss ways that a submissive/slave can better themselves; How they can make themselves more purposeful. It can be rules to live by for beginners and a "tune-up" for veterans. There are 14 steps to becoming a better submissive. I will only go through 7 today and the rest at another time. These helpful hints and more can be found on www.submissiveguide.com/topics/defining-submission/ 

**"Pencils and paper students!!!"**

7 Things you can do to improve your submission

1. Move With Purpose- This includes posture. Move like you have somewhere to go but that does not mean rush like you are in a hurry. Be punctual yet utilize your use of body language while doing so. Be poetry in motion, pleasing to the eye and beautiful to watch. It has nothing to do necessarily with how beautiful or ugly unattractive your are. Your movements should always ooze with confidence that your are glad to serve your Master no matter what the task, even if its something you don't want to do.

2. Think before you speak- Yea i need to pay a10shun to this cuz my mouth always gets me fucked up punished :/  Basically show that you can communicate verbally, not necessarily with body language. Show your Dom that you can effectively state what your feeling. Make clear and concise statements. And if you really don't know what to say, just state exactly that or revisit the subject a little later. A real Dom will (should) respect the fact that you want to express yourself clearly and would allow you to do so. So basically, talk like you have some damn sense.

3. Enhance basic service-This kind of falls in line with rule #5. Whatever your do, add a twist to make it a little better. Maybe instead of cooking dinner and leaving it on the stove, you can pretend your a waitress and serve Him/ Her their food as if you both were in a restaurant. Ok.. maybe that idea is far fetched BUT im sure you catch my drift. Add the extra "Umph" to what ever you do.

4. Learn a new skill- This is where a sub can let their light so shine. Impress you Dom with something new you have learned or experience. Continue to show and prove that along with improving the life of Him/Her, you are also working on improving your life too. Learn something that maybe the both of you may like. Or you can pick up something that your Dom may not know about then introduce it to Him/ Her and hey, they may like it too. Always work on making yourself more marketable. I'm working on getting my "shit" together to pursue Portuguese and American Sign Language. More power to me!! *fist pump*

5. Kneel or sit at His/Her feet when they are busy- A good way to impress your Dom- be available when your not needed and always ready to answer call of service. If you know your Dom is going to be busy doing something, for example ummm.. Lets says H/She is exercising in the home in the gym (basement). H/She really does not need your immediate assistance for anything in particular while running on the treadmill but you can for example have a bottle of cool water, a towel to dry sweat, lil snacks, start a soothing bath waiting... Things like that. Kinda of going above and beyond but in a very subtle way. Its the little things that count and they will be noticed and remembered.

6. Ask for help from senior subs- Subs that have been offering service for a while are a great way to expand and enhance your knowledge. Most likely they have been through what you may be currently going through and can offer solutions to your questions. They can be somewhat of a mentor. But as always be careful of who you take advise from. Not everyone has your best interests in mind and we all know what that's like :/

7. Meditate on your submission- my Master always reminds me to do this, not just on the topic of submission but just to meditate in general. Pick a nice quite place, wait till bed time or wake up a few minutes early and think about your role. Think about your past, present, and how you would like to continue in the future. How you can make things better. Its a good way to recenter and realign your self with the universe and with yourself so that you can begin to improve on your overall lifestyle.    

           Whew hand cramp... guys I hope these tips were helpful!! I guess I have to actually go and work for my money now :( haha I kid, I kid. Peace and Blessings :-*